Oklahoma • Arkansas • Kansas • Missouri • North Texas
Good people.Wild Weekends.Real connections.
Oklahoma-based swinger and consensual non-monogamy events for couples and singles. Hotel takeovers, festivals, education, and a community worth showing up for.
Adults 21+ · Consent first · Come as you are.
Find your next reason to get out
Your next great weekend starts here.
Hotel takeovers, festivals, and a calendar full of good times. Pick your party. We’ll see you there.
More than a ticket
Stay connected.
Make it your community.
The best part of OTB? The people. Keep the conversation going between events with member profiles, private community chat, and more ways to connect.
Just getting to know us? Create a free profile.
OTB Community Membership
$9.30 / month
- Keep in touchPrivate Telegram community, profiles, messaging, and friend requests.
- Find your peopleCommunity newsfeed, member media, matchmaking, and members-only events.
- Get more from your weekendsUp to $10 off ticketing fees at eligible events.
Monthly recurring price includes the listed ticketing fee; bills until canceled. Non-recurring options are also available. Tickets and lodging are separate.
The ultimate adult summer camp
Sooner Swing
May 27–30, 2027 · Oklahoma
Live music. Foam parties. Workshops. Three nights under the stars with people who make it worth staying up for.
The people make the party
Don’t just take our word for it.
Had a magnificent time at the OTB takeover! We've been to hotel takeovers in Missouri, Texas, and Arkansas over the years, and this was the best hotel takeover we've been to. Thank you OTB team for the hard work!
— Jimmy & Bobbie
I had an amazing time as always and can't wait for the next party! As a single female attending events, one thing I've never had to worry about at OTB events is security. There's always someone right around the corner, and that means a lot.
— CM, OKC
Sooner Swing is my favorite lifestyle event of the year. There's so much to do, see... it's like a whole city of swingers partying their asses off for 3 non stop days.
— Kristi C, OKC
A little curious? Good.
Lifestyle events in Oklahoma.
A community across the region.
A few things to know before your first OTB weekend. For more, read our Oklahoma lifestyle event guide.
What is OTB?
On The Border Lifestyle Co. is an Oklahoma-based, sex-positive community for adults 21+. We host swinger and consensual non-monogamy events, hotel takeovers, festivals, education, and travel. Couples, singles, queer folks, polyamorous people, and curious adults are welcome; check each event’s admission requirements.
Where are OTB events held?
We host events in Oklahoma City, Tulsa, and across the region, welcoming guests from Oklahoma, Arkansas, Kansas, Missouri, and North Texas. Our event calendar has current dates and locations. Beyond The Border is our adults-only travel program.
Is a free profile the same as membership?
No. A free profile gets you started. Paid membership adds community features and member benefits. Event tickets and lodging are purchased separately.
I’m new. Do I have to participate?
Your boundaries come first. Meet people, take a class, or simply enjoy the atmosphere at your own pace. Consent is required, and you can always say no or change your mind. Read our consent and conduct rules before attending.
What is Sooner Swing?
Sooner Swing is OTB’s flagship adult summer camp: a weekend of live music, foam parties, workshops, themed nights, and community in Oklahoma. The next event is May 27–30, 2027. See the festival details.
What does OTB stand for?
Consent, autonomy, inclusion, education, and connection. OTB is an NCSF Coalition Partner, an Accredited Safer-Sex Play Space, and IAES Local 918. Our community includes queer people, swingers, kinksters, and people practicing ethical non-monogamy.
