OTB is where interesting non-monogamous people connect — at festivals, at parties, and in a private members network that actually delivers. No judgment. No awkward small talk. Just better weekends.
Why People Show Up
A lot of communities ask you to settle. OTB doesn't. Here's what's waiting for you.
From rooftop cocktail parties in Tulsa to our 1,800-person flagship festival — every swinger event is built to create real connection, real chemistry, and zero awkwardness.
Hedonism II, lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers. We plan the trips so you just show up and have the best week of your life.
A members-only network of real humans — not bots, not fakes. Verified, vetted, and surprisingly easy to talk to.
Workshops, kink labs, speed dating, rookie-friendly spaces. No pressure, no stage — just a room full of people figuring it out together.
Your profile, your business. We don't share your data, your face doesn't appear on Google, and you can be as discreet as you want or need to be.
Find the events, workshops, classes, and most importantly the people that you're looking for.
Members Only
Flash a costume, flaunt your curves, or show off that power couple energy. Share in our members-only feed and snag prizes, bragging rights, and new flirty friends.
The Vibe Check
"We'd been curious for two years before OTB finally got us off the couch. First event we attended changed everything — we left with six new couples' numbers and a genuinely better marriage."
— Sarah & Mike, Oklahoma City · Members since 2023
Upcoming
A small taste of what's on the calendar in Oklahoma and beyond. Full event lineup below.
We Go Global… Many Times Per Year
Hedonism II · Negril, Jamaica
Join us every March for the world-famous Ms No Swimsuit competition and again for Bi Week in October. Powered by our partners at Tom's Trips, these getaways sell out fast — lock in your room before someone else steals your view.
Lifestyle Cruises
We hit the high seas looking for booties to plunder — and you can be a pirate with us.
It's whether you're okay with another weekend of "we should do something sometime" — while real couples just like you are living their best lives.
Create Your Free ProfileFree to join. No credit card. No obligation. Just a few clicks between you and a whole calendar of people who are exactly as tired of boring as you are.
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